Sunday, July 26, 2015

DISAPPOINTMENT – THE GAME CHANGER

A Different Path
Fiery Trial

“I looked around at the damage. Blackened floors and wood beams, metal containers darkened from the licking flames.  What was once thriving and full of hope and activity – is now ashes that can be blown away with a strong wind. 

The smell of smoke damage instead of spring, ruin everywhere I look; what happened? How did the fire start?  Can anything be recovered? All seems unusable. On the floor there was a page with a few typed words.  What was this document before the flames ate at it?”

I wrote the words above after I had a huge disappointment.  I wanted to express how I felt inside, the frustration and sadness.  I was acting normal on the outside but inside I felt the fiery effects of deep disappointment.  

Disappointment could be caused by a failed career or job loss, a failed relationship, a broken dream, betrayal of a friend or less traumatic things.  These let downs could have negative affects on a person’s life and could leave you sour, if you let it.

Blessing in Disguise
But I found a secret in my experiences with disappointment.  It is a game changer! When I look beyond my plans and my expectations I find that disappointment can be a blessing! I took my disappointment to God and He surprised with unexpected results.

Disappointment can help direct your path – I let it guide me to my destiny. It’s why I’m writing these words. It's why I’m working on a book. There are many examples to prove my point that disappointment can be the best thing that ever happened to you. Your life can be heading in one direction but there is a better direction, a destiny direction, if you let disappointment be your guide.  Here are some examples:


  • Like the guy who expected a promotion but instead he got an assignment to train a new person for that position. She would be his new boss.  That disappointment led him to decide it was time to go full time with his part time business. In the first month his business made almost as much as he would have made in a year at the job he left! 
  • The young woman who loved her boyfriend but he was not stable and his future was not going where she wanted to go – but love is blind. She couldn’t see it.   He betrayed and disappointed her. It was painful but she kept herself busy with creative projects and going to school to improve her life. She ended up marrying a wonderful godly man who treasures her. 
  • Or the family who lost a bid for a house they desperately wanted. That disappointment closed the door to one opportunity but they found a much better home in the area they wanted for the same price. 


Take This Road
We can't see what is ahead of us so remember that the Lord is with you, even in your disappointment. Next time you face a disappointment, let it be a game changer; consider it to be a teacher and guide.

I like the passage in Isaiah 30:20b – v21 “yet your Teacher will not hide Himself any more, but your eyes will constantly behold your Teacher.
21 And your ears will hear a word behind you, saying, This is the way; walk in it, when you turn to the right hand and when you turn to the left.” AMP 

Disappointment is a guidepost telling you which road to take to your blessings.


Do you have examples of disappointments that turned out to be blessings? Please feel free to share them in the blog comments below.

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